when you look at the exit polls, they were with us. for women the top issues came back to the economy and jobs, and those are the issues that were on the voters' minds, and i think it's more about the messengers and who's communicating our values to every corner in this country. >> can i just say i think that the idea of moderate and modern are -- is a difference without a distinction because in order to be modern in 21st century we cannot be extreme right. >> well, it's not about changing our values and our principles, though. it is about bringing them so that people understand them in the 21st century -- >> it's about how we talk about those values and principles. so as a father of seven, married for 30 years, people can see the way i live my life. i don't need to sit there and rub it in people's faces, for heaven's sake. what we need to do -- >> who rubs it in somebody's faces? >> listen, the discussion that this nation wants to have is about solutions. it's not about right. it's not about left. it's not about moderates. it's about